The first Ladies know the Power of Red
The Original Red Power Dress
Red is a powerful color. It is a color that gets your attention. It is associated with seduction, romance, and now a study from the University of Rochester shows men find women wearing red more attractive.
The study on men measured the affects of color in assessing a woman’s attractiveness, and red won. An interesting point from the study says that the men “were unaware that the color red turns them on”.
Don’t ask me why research and time was allotted to this study. I am just commenting on the results because red is my favorite color.
Pictures of the US Senate and Congress show many women members wearing red suits. Do they get along better with their male counterparts when dressed in Red? I thought it was just a powerful color, not easily overlooked before I read this study. If men find women wearing red more attractive a conclusion can be made that they will cooperate and collaborate more with their female counterparts.
Case in point, when President Elect Obama and Mrs. Obama met at the White House with President Bush and Mrs. Bush, both wives were in red dresses. Conclusions can be made that if you are a woman and need to get along with men, wear red. Going to a party and don’t know many people, wear red. A social or business meeting with not your favorite people, wear red. Mrs. Bush, Mrs. Obama, and Mrs. Claus know to wear red!
National Tie One on Day, an apron of course, is November 26, 2008. EllynAnne Geisel of Apron Memories, www.apronmemories.com, started this giving day tradition the day before Thanksgiving three years ago. She encourages embracing a “giving opportunity that has nothing to do with shopping or even getting into a car, but everything to do with our recognition of gratefulness and our ability to give to someone in need of spiritual or physical sustenance.”
EllynAnne goes on to say “Women clad in aprons have traditionally prepared the Thanksgiving meal and it is with in our historical linkage to share our bounty”
EllynAnne has become the patron saint of the Apron.
She writes about aprons, www.apronchronicles.com, exhibits aprons, and sews and sells aprons on her web site. Her aprons have become famous with the Desperate Housewives character Bree wearing one, to the recent article in Vogue magazine.
When I came across the Apron Memories site I was infatuated. My very first sewing project was an apron, and I have loved them and sewing ever since. After I read about EllynAnne’s ‘Tie One On Day’, I knew I had to get the word out. Join me and other apron wearing women spreading thanks the day before Thanksgiving.
A friend of mine in another state told me she votes by mail because while in the voting booth, she gets a wee bit anxious and her anxiety triggers hot flashes.
Here in the state of Oregon, all voting is done by mail. Don’t want to mail your ballot, drop off boxes are located at libraries. In tallying up the ballots, many of the workers wear gloves because some of the ballots are covered with food. Some of the ballots are hard to read because of coffee stains. The ballots come out 2 weeks before the election and people are at their leisure casting their vote. This is code for they may be eating at the same time.
My friend thinks Oregon is on to some thing great with their vote by mail. I personally miss the excitement of voting in person. I would suffer a day full of hot flashes to go to a voting booth. I always wanted to be one of those ladies outside the voting booth who takes your ballot. They always looked like they were having fun, eating cookies and coffee and talking with each other. They would scornfully look up the precinct when people didn’t know where to vote. I was asked once with perfect scorn “you don’t know what precinct you are in?” Oh how I wanted that job!
Unless I move to another State or Oregon goes back to voting in person, my life career goal is gone, obsolete. The best I can do is stand in front of a drop off box sipping coffee eating cookies and hope someone will ask me the location of the box so I can make some scornful reply!
Komen has a program for the month of October, breast cancer awareness month, for companies to join in fund raising by wearing Pink. www.passionatelypink.org. The goal is to set a date and anyone who wants to wear the Pink in support for the Cure donates at least $5.00.
We took this fund raising challenge on a different bent with Passionately Pink Pumpkins for the Cure. We had so many table top pumpkins from our garden that we decided to decorate them with pink boa feathers and sell them as Passionately Pink Pumpkins for the Cure. Of course we wore pink in more of a Halloween/costume theme and had pink lemonade and pink cupcakes, because what is a pink fund raiser with-out pink cake?
The response was great and we raised $150.00 from our afternoon efforts. Next year we are planning for bigger response, more lead time and more cupcakes. No guarantee that the garden will produce an abundance of pumpkins again, but we can adapt with Passionately Pink Potatoes for the Cure, or even Passionately Pink Parsley for the Cure. We have a year to passionately plan.
My lovely dress was bought at the local Goodwill for $5.95. This was hand sewn and must have been a bride’s maid dress. The puffy sleeves and the bow in the back are the tell tale signs. A friend was looking for a princess dress just like mine to wear at the request of her 2 little boys for Halloween. I am delighted to loan it to her for the evening because I know how difficult it is to find a passionately pink taffeta dress when you need one!
Did you ever want to be in the movies? Who hasn’t had a bit of a fantasy to see themselves on the big screen, gorgeous backgrounds, exotic locations, costumes and make-up that make you look like a real live movie star? Yes fantasies are great.
Reality is more like in the movie Tootsie when they scream “Not too close” for the camera work in shooting Dustin Hoffman as Tootsie. This week I was able to participate in some of the fun of movie making. Hot Flash Havoc, www.hotflashhavoc.com, is the name of the film being made that I am privileged to be a part of. Since it is in documentary style, I am playing myself, a middle age menopausal woman. My naturopathic physician friend Kelly Jennings, www.urbanwellnesspdx.com, is also interviewed and filmed. Kelly treats effectively, and patiently many women with menopause and breast cancer symptoms. She is also young, smart and gorgeous! So my close up is Kelly giving me an acupuncture treatment. Yes indeed, I am the woman in repose with acupuncture needles all over her face, head and neck!
I was also interviewed about my story, the breast cancer/menopause/entrepreneur connection. This film has a fantastic concept; educate and entertain about the condition called Menopause. The movie is still in production and I will blog about it again, and again as the release date becomes closer and my close up for stardom nears.
At one time I had a service of dinnerware and flatware for 16. Now I have a firm service for 10. Where did the missing flatware go? Did they take up with the solo socks? Has my dishwasher taken up with the dryer and it is an appliance conspiracy?
I know some dishes have broken along the years. Yes that time I was giving a plate full of food to a family member to bring to some one seated at the table and it was a bad pass off, and a messy cleanup. Then there was the time some other family member cut lemons with a huge knife and force on a dessert plate. Of course there was that incident when a soup bowl and dinner plate slipped out of the dishwasher onto the floor.
I started with a service of 16 realizing that not all dishes last forever. In fact my pattern has been discontinued. All these mishaps account for my being able to serve Thanksgiving dinner for 10 only. Some one wants to bring a friend; they better bring their own dishes!
Now where are all my forks and tablespoons? I think some went for a potluck and never came home. I am not accusing but let’s just say I use camping flatware for potlucks. It’s not pretty but it serves and if it doesn’t come home it is not missed until the next camping trip or ever.
The dining room table seats 8 comfortably. We don’t have to bring in any extra chairs or the put some one on the piano bench. This is my new limit to entertain. More people than 8 will have to be seated at the children’s table with paper dishes.
I know I can’t be alone with this problem. Have you found your missing dishes or silverware? What do you do when you have more people than service ware?
In 1986 I left my job and I bought a new car. The kind of work I did came with a company car. I knew I would get another job and another company car, but until then I decided to buy a car I would keep, a convertible. The dealer tossed me the keys and told me to take a test drive. I liked the car, and bought it. I call her Beverly.
I didn’t buy air conditioning on the convertible, thinking as a young person that if it were warm I would have the top down. In 2002 I was hot all the time. Even if I drove fast with the top down I was still hot. I really needed a car with air-conditioning.
The Mini Cooper was just being introduced and I thought it adorable. I was put on a 6-8 month waiting list. I couldn’t wait. I was going through cancer treatments and my coping skills were diminished. I needed air! I found a Mini on line and bought the car over the phone. I call him Monty.
I think cars age about 5 years for every human year. My husband and I fall in love with our cars. Beverly’s value is more sentimental in her present condition than monetary. Monty has lots of miles and Mini’s aren’t known for running with hundreds of thousands of miles. We are in the talking stages of selling.
I bought my cars with so much emotion that they are hard to sell. I want to hold on to that confident young woman’s buying choice of a convertible. I want to remember my fearlessness with buying a car unseen, not test driven as my victory over cancer. I really hate that my cars are aging faster than me!
Have you ever become attached to your car? What did you do when your car became old?
I recently attended a seminar on the brain. It was a continuing education credit class for me. The seminar was lead by 2 brain surgeons. There were cookies and fruit passed around while we listened and looked at slides. Note to self and anyone else; unless you look at brain slides all day long, don’t be snacking!
The first doctor loved his slides. He showed surgery from different approaches to the brain: through the sinus and nose, through top of the skull and slicing through the mid skull or base of skull. Since brain surgery is not my usual choice of slide viewing my reaction was a loud internal yuk, yuk, and yuk!
I must have zoned out on the asked question because suddenly the doctor was talking about worms in the brain. Now you understand my reservations on the snacking. Well it appears a person can acquire a worm that goes into your brain from eating uncooked pork. He says sometimes the worm is still living when they remove it from the poor soul’s brain!
Another question about diagnostic testing and surgery brought the remark that he and his ilk do so many brain surgeries they can do it in their sleep. Here is where I am afraid I am over sharing. Like everyone else I would hope my brain surgeon would have his eyes open when operating on my brain even if it is to him/her, child’s play.
Brain Surgeon #2 got up and thank goodness did not have any slides. She started her talk saying summer is trauma season in the brain injury field. More accidents on the brain occur during the summer than a fantastic snow/ski season in the winter. People are outdoors on bikes, motorcycles, ATVs, diving into water, waterskiing and generally taking too many risks without headgear protection. Many back injuries are also brain injuries. Then there is the matter of alcohol that may or may not induce some risky behavior but does increases bleeding in the brain. Not a good thing.
The brain surgeons say brain health is influenced by lifestyle and diet. They feel the brain is the Rodney Dangerfield of the body, with the heart getting all the glamour!
Take-away to have a healthy brain:
- Healthy Lifestyle, exercise and diet
- Helmets for bikes, motorcycles, and ATVs
- Don’t dive head first into a body of water that you don’t know the depth
- Don’t drink and dive, drive, waterski, or do any activities
- Cook pork thoroughly
- Don’t do Meth. It appears you can literally fry your brain on meth
I hope I didn’t gross out anyone, but the brain is interesting, don’t you think?
Spring started with a friend mentioning to me about her chairs she reupholstered. I was impressed with her work and asked her if she would help me. It was fun and I am really pleased how they turned out!
Then I was cruising through Goodwill and spotted a bolt of outdoor fabric. I ‘d been wanting to get new cushions for the outside chairs so why not. My sewing machine buzzed and my skills came back, sort of.
Because it does look a bit like the circus is in town with all the stripes, I made another tablecloth to mix and match.
I was feeling confident on my sewing skills so when another fabric piece appeared at Goodwill I thought it perfect for cushions for the cat baskets.
Now that summer is here, I’ve put the sewing machine away for a bit. My summer project is to organize my loose recipes. I did this about 10 years ago with category tabs. I bought this notebook and plastic page protectors and if I can stop printing off recipes I find online or from www.BakingInATornado.com, I will finish by summer’s end.
Another project waiting for cold weather and the return of the sewing machine is Tooth Fairy Pillows. I picked up some felt and fabric at a yard sale that will be darling. The woman I bought the fabrics from asked if I was putting a handle on the pillows that go on the doorknob of the child’s room to direct the Tooth Fairy. Did the Tooth Fairy get stupid?
Do you know the proper protocol for Tooth Fairy pillows? Any one have a tooth fairy design they like? I am open for ideas!
What are your summer projects?
I love to garden and truly miss it during the winter. Our fruits and vegetable gardens have been spectacular the last couple of years. Last year we had 13 tomato plants that yielded over 225 pounds of tomatoes. We were busy harvesting and making sauce and paste through October.
All was looking good for 2014 in the garden. Tomatoes, peppers and eggplants were in cages, green beans were running up poles, and corn was on schedule to be knee high for Fourth of July. Then Nature hit!
We got 20 minutes of hail on June 16th. In January we don’t get 20 minutes of hail! This hail came down in sheets. It was big, it was cold and the temperature dropped 15 degrees so it actually accumulated on the ground. Read the rest of this entry »
I have been struggling with a retreat of a root canal. What you say? Let’s just say that I had a new long-term relationship with my endodontic dentist who finally declared the tooth terminal. He passed me to an Oral surgeon for an extraction of the offending tooth. Subsequently I have not been able to chew well for a couple of months. Thus soup making.
I made more than 10 different soups that are soft to eat. No stews or chunky soups. Slurping up was progress for my mouth. Now I have gone back and remade the best soups and refined them. My husband has been onboard with this dinner theme making a few recipes to add to our collection.
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Every business has their own terminology. In my business when we are designing and making prototypes before we go into production of a style we speak in sewing terms.
My husband didn’t know the jargon associated with the sewing industry. He is great working with our manufacturer but some of the questions had him confused. He decided to enroll in a beginning sewing class.
His first project was a pillowcase. His second project was a removable decorative pillow with a zipper. He was feeling confident and added a braided fringe. It is now a favorite napping pillow for our cats.
The class was not reminiscent of sewing classes from Junior High School because everyone wanted to be there. My husband’s goal was to learn basics and more importantly terminology. All the adult students wanted to learn, refresh or hone their sewing skills. Many never even had sewing classes in school.
I loved sewing in junior and senior high schools. At that time I sewed many of my outfits and lots of my party, fancy clothes. I stopped sewing clothes around 1980 when clothing at stores became inexpensive and I didn’t have the time to devote to it. I, however, never lost my interest or the knowledge I learned way back when!
My husband had shop class in junior and senior high school. He is very handy. How things change! Home Economics and shop are no longer taught in school. I have taught many friends how to hem clothing and sew buttons. Likewise my husband has taught some neighbors a few home maintenance tricks. Now he can add to his Renaissance Man persona, sewing knowledge.
Have you ever taken a class just for the practical aspects? I think there should be restaurant Spanish classes for restaurant workers, or medical terminology classes for chronic care patients. Of course clothing repair and hemming would be a great class for adults too. Would you benefit from such classes?
I really love a wedding. I really really do.
I love the romance, the excitement, the optimism, the spectacle and the party. I wish all the best to everyone who marries.
That said, here are my new rules:
If it is your second or third wedding and I was there for the first, or the second wedding don’t invite me!
If I was at your first or second wedding do not ask me for a gift/charity contribution!
Didn’t I give you a present for your last wedding, and your last wedding shower?
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This is a tip that I want to share that my dentist told me over 30 years ago. As you age so do your teeth, your fillings in your mouth don’t last forever. All fillings will grow up to become crowns. Thinking about not taking out dental insurance? Think again! Read the rest of this entry »
If I read one more report that says this or that can be done to prevent breast cancer I will explode! Those of us intimate with breast cancer know the randomness of the disease.
There are no guarantees in life. Why would there be a guarantee in preventing breast cancer? There is no cure for breast cancer. There is no one prevention course of action that will keep you free from the disease. Statistically the number one reason people get breast cancer is because they are female. The number two reason is too many birthdays. So if you are female, and live long enough, your chances increase in getting breast cancer.
Here are some of the headlines I read about breast cancer in unscientific magazines: Read the rest of this entry »